At BrilliantRead Media, it is our constant endeavour to identify and share some of the unique and compelling stories from the startup ecosystem. As part of this, we invited Shanthi Selvaraj for an interview with BrilliantRead Media. She is an Entrepreneur, Coach, Teacher, Certified Relationship Coach, and Influencer. Let’s learn more about her background, her inspiring journey so far and her advice for our growing community!
Excerpts from our exclusive interview with Shanthi:
Could you please talk us through your background and your journey?
I’m Shanthi Selvaraj, a certified international relationship coach with a deep-seated passion for helping couples navigate the complexities of long-distance relationships.
Over the years, I’ve honed an approach that blends technology with time-tested relationship principles to create transformative experiences for my clients.”
My mission is to empower couples worldwide to not only survive but thrive in their unique situations. Through personalized strategies, communication tools, and unwavering support, I help turn the challenges of distance into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. It’s truly an honour to be able to share this journey with couples from all walks of life, and I’m excited to bring this expertise to a wider audience through this platform.
I began my career as a teacher and later transitioned into HR, gaining valuable insights into organizational dynamics. Currently, as a Financial Advisor, I empower individuals with sound financial guidance. Drawing on my experiences, I’m now an internationally certified Relationship Coach, specializing in parent-teen dynamics.
I’m on the verge of launching my online coaching business, a dream I’ve long nurtured. As a mother of two teenagers, I intimately understand the complexities of parenthood, fueling my passion to help others in similar situations.”
How did you discover your passion as a ‘Coach’?
My path to coaching was ignited by my own experiences as a parent of teenagers. This journey, combined with my diverse professional background, led me to recognize the profound impact of effective communication in parent-teen relationships.
Becoming a certified Relationship Coach specializing in this dynamic allows me to share invaluable strategies and witness transformative change in families.”
It’s a path I’m wholeheartedly committed to, driven by the belief in the power of coaching to make a positive impact.
How do you manage to keep going despite the challenges? What drives you?
Despite challenges, my unwavering belief in the transformative power of coaching drives me. I’ve seen firsthand the positive impact it has on parent-teen relationships. Witnessing families thrive motivates me to overcome obstacles. Knowing I can make a difference keeps me dedicated to this path.
Maintaining my drive amidst challenges is deeply rooted in my unwavering belief in the impact of what I do. My experiences, both as a professional and as a parent, have provided me with a profound understanding of the hurdles individuals face, particularly in the realm of parent-teen relationships.
This understanding fuels my determination to equip parents with the skills and strategies they need to navigate this pivotal phase. Witnessing the positive transformations and strengthened bonds within families is a powerful reminder of the value of what I do.
Furthermore, the knowledge that my work has the potential to positively impact not only individuals but entire family units keeps me motivated. It’s a responsibility I take to heart, and knowing that I can make a difference is what propels me forward, even in the face of challenges.
Ultimately, my passion for helping others and my belief in the transformative power of coaching serve as my guiding light. They remind me that every obstacle is an opportunity for growth and positive change, and that’s what keeps me going.”
Who do you believe has been the most significant source of motivation in your daily life?
My most significant source of motivation in my daily life has been my own children. As a parent of two teenagers, I’m constantly inspired by their resilience, curiosity, and growth. They remind me of the importance of leading by example and continuously seeking personal and profes-sional development.
Their challenges and triumphs are a constant source of learning and reflection for me. Witnessing their progress fuels my determination to be the best version of myself and to make a positive impact in their lives and the lives of others.
Additionally, my clients and the families I work with provide continuous motivation. Knowing that I have the opportunity to guide and support them through their own journeys reinforces my commitment to this path. Their successes and growth serve as a testament to the power of coaching and the potential for positive change in people’s lives.”
What are some of the strategies that you believe have helped you grow as a person?
– Engaging in continuous self-reflection and setting clear goals.
– Embracing challenges as catalysts for growth and learning.
– Cultivating active listening and empathy in all interactions.
– Nurturing a growth mindset, viewing failures as valuable learning experiences.
– Effectively balancing personal, professional, and family priorities.
– Seeking mentorship to gain valuable insights and perspective.
– Prioritizing ongoing learning and staying updated with industry trends.
– Fostering adaptability and resilience in the face of adversity.
– Practising gratitude and maintaining a positive outlook on life.
In your opinion what are the keys to success?
> Clear Vision and Goals
> Hard Work and Dedication
> Continuous Learning and Adaptability
> Resilience and Perseverance
> Effective Time Management
> Strong Communication and Interpersonal Skills
> Emotional Intelligence
> Networking and Building Connections
> Adherence to Values and Integrity
> Adaptation to Feedback and Continuous Improvement
> Maintaining Health and Well-being
> Maintaining a Positive mindset
What advice would you give to our readers?
I would advise our readers to prioritize continuous learning and self-reflection. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, and never underestimate the power of adaptability.
Build strong relationships with others, and always lead with empathy and integrity. Don’t be afraid to seek mentorship; remember that it’s okay to ask for help when needed. Lastly, never neglect your own well-being; maintaining a healthy work-life balance is key to sustained success and fulfilment.
Last but not least, what about your journey makes it satisfying/exciting?
Last but not least, what truly makes my journey satisfying and exciting is the relentless pursuit of self-improvement. By constantly seeking to better myself and embracing learning opportunities, I’ve been able to turn my dreams into tangible achievements. This continuous cycle of growth fuels my passion and keeps me excited about what each day may bring.
Remember, for my readers, don’t doubt yourself. Anything is possible. Just listen to your inner child and the subconscious mind – they hold the key to your true desires and aspirations. Find your skill, and follow your passion.
Regardless of age or circumstances, take that step towards success. This belief has been the cornerstone of my journey, and I encourage you to embrace it in your own pursuits.
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