At BrilliantRead Media, we always strive to bring meaningful and powerful stories from India and around the world to empower and motivate our growing community. As part of this endeavour, we invited Sinddya Thambithurai for an exclusive interview with us. Sinddya is an Entrepreneur, Leader, Author, Trainer, Speaker, Coach, Mentor, Consultant and Change Enabler. She is the Founder of Sinddya Thambithurai. Let’s learn more about her incredible journey, her background, and her advice for our growing community!
Excerpts from our exclusive interview with Sinddya:
Could you please talk us through your background and your journey?
I am an award-winning Trainer, Speaker, Author, and Coach. From a young age, I showed a natural curiosity and a passion for learning. After completing my high school education, I went on to earn a graduate in Mathematics and a bachelor’s degree in business administration from a top university.
After completing my education, I am working in the corporate world. I quickly rose through the ranks, earning promotions and accolades for my exceptional work. Everyone realized that my true passion lay in helping others to achieve their full potential.
My expertise in personal mastery is based on my own experience of overcoming challenges and achieving success. I developed a range of tools and techniques to help individuals overcome self-doubt, develop self-confidence, and create a positive mindset. My coaching and training programs have helped countless individuals to unlock their full potential.”
As a certified trainer and coach, I have extensive experience in developing leadership skills. I do believe that leadership is not just about giving orders but about inspiring and empowering others to achieve their goals. I helped many individuals and organizations to develop effective leadership strategies and to create a culture of excellence.
Time management is a critical skill for success in today’s fast-paced world. I developed a range of techniques and strategies to help individuals manage their time more effectively.”
I also believe that by prioritizing tasks, setting clear goals, and using time management tools, individuals can achieve their goals while maintaining a healthy work-life balance. My contributions to the field of personal mastery, leadership, time management, and entrepreneurship have been widely praised.
My great milestones are the “Best Life Coach” award by TEBL and Raj TV last year and my book “The Science of Leadership” which is available on Amazon globally.
How did you discover your passion as a ‘Coach’?
I’ve always been drawn to helping others achieve their goals, and it was during COVID time when I sat in my home and started attending a plethora of training sessions and where I discovered my passion for coaching. Mindvalley programs, quests, and train-ers inspired me to discover myself as a Coach.
I decided to take coaching courses and earn certifications to formalize my skills. Additionally, I began volunteering as a coach for many organizations like Lions Club International District 342C, TEBL Forum, Punch Gurukulam, Narpulari, and YEF (Youth India Federa-tion) to gain practical experience and refine my coaching techniques.
Coaching has not only enriched my professional life but has also helped me grow as a person. It has taught me the value of empathy, active listening, continuous self-improvement, creating a network, people service, and leadership quality.”
I’m particularly excited about the opportunity to work as a coach for corporate people, working professionals, and college students. I believe my passion for coaching aligns perfectly with their commitment to employee development, and I’m eager to contribute to the growth and success of everyone.
How do you manage to keep going despite the challenges? What drives you?
I am deeply passionate about coaching, and this passion is a significant driving force for me. I firmly believe in the transformative power of coaching to help individuals and teams reach their full potential. This belief fuels my commitment to overcoming challenges.
One of the most challenging situations I faced as a coach was when I was working with a client who seemed resistant to change. Instead of giving up, I took a step back to understand their perspective better, adjusted my coaching approach, and eventually helped them break through their barriers.
Balancing the responsibilities of motherhood (spending time with my 9-year-old kid), along with my commitment to office work, blogging, content creation, book writing, podcast recording, and video production, presents a constant challenge as I strive to achieve all my planned tasks.”
I have a network of fellow coaches and mentors whom I turn to for advice and guidance when facing challenges. Their insights and encouragement have been invaluable in helping me stay motivated and continue to grow as a coach.
Eventually, seeing my clients achieve their goals and witnessing the positive changes in their lives as a result of my coaching is incredibly fulfilling. These success stories serve as a constant reminder of the meaningful work I do, which drives me to overcome any obstacles that come my way.”
Who do you believe has been the biggest source of motivation in your daily life?
One of the most significant sources of motivation in my daily life as a coach has undoubtedly been my family. Their unwavering belief in my abilities and the encouragement they provide have been instrumental in keeping me motivated and driven in my coaching journey.
My parents have been my pillars of strength from the very beginning. Their values of hard work, determination, and the importance of helping others have deeply influenced my coaching philosophy. My parents’ consistent assistance in looking after my child and managing household responsibilities greatly bolsters my ability to manage my time effectively.
Furthermore, my child has been a central figure in motivating me as a coach. Following the publication of my book, my son found inspiration and began working on his own book. This has further fueled my drive to become an influential figure and a supportive mother in his life. Whenever my motivation wanes, and I experience low moments, my sister, brother, and close friend provide significant moral support, assisting me in maintaining consistency.
I’ve been fortunate to have mentors in the coaching field who have had a profound impact on my journey. Their wisdom, experience, and dedication to the craft have continuously motivated me to strive for excellence in my coaching practice. The feedback I’ve received from my clients underscores the significant impact of my book, including its ideas and examples, on their lives, serving as a motivating force for me to continue writing more books.
My personal values of empathy, authenticity, and continuous learning serve as a constant source of motivation. I believe that by embodying these principles in my coaching practice, I can make a positive difference in my clients’ lives.”
I am a firm believer in the importance of lifelong learning. The coaching field is dynamic and evolving, and my commitment to staying informed about the latest developments motivates me to continually improve and adapt my coaching methods. I regularly engage in Mindvalley programs and am an avid lifelong reader of books.
What are some of the strategies that you believe have helped you grow as a person?
Certainly, there are a few strategies that I believe have contributed to my personal growth.
Patience: Embracing patience has been pivotal in my personal development. It’s allowed me to navigate challenges with a calm and composed demeanour, enabling me to make more thoughtful decisions and learn from setbacks.
Resilience: Resilience has been a key factor in my growth journey. By bouncing back from difficulties and adversity, I’ve gained valuable life experiences and a stronger sense of self.
Determination: My unwavering determination to achieve my goals has been a driving force. It has kept me focused on continuous self-improvement and the pursuit of my dreams.
Spirituality: Cultivating my spiritual side has provided me with inner peace and a deeper understanding of life’s purpose. This has not only enhanced my personal well-being but also my ability to connect with others on a deeper level.
Consistency: Consistency in my actions and efforts has been vital. It has helped me develop good habits, maintain progress, and achieve long-term goals, both personally and professionally.
People Network: Building and nurturing a supportive network of people, and mastermind groups has been instrumental. These connections have provided guidance, encouragement, and valuable insights that have accelerated my growth.
Positive Attitude: Maintaining a positive attitude, even in the face of challenges, has been transformative. Positivity has not only helped me overcome obstacles but also influenced those around me in a constructive way.
Gratitude: Practicing gratitude daily has been a cornerstone of my personal growth. It’s enabled me to appreciate the present moment, recognize the goodness in life, and maintain a sense of humility.
In essence, these strategies have collectively shaped me into the person I am today, continually propelling me forward on my personal growth journey. They have not only benefited me personally but have also positively impacted my coaching practice by allowing me to connect with others more deeply and help them grow as well.
In your opinion what are the keys to success?
When it comes to the keys to success, I believe in a holistic approach that encompasses various aspects of life. In my opinion, there are a few key elements that contribute to achieving success.
Health and Well-being: Without good health, it’s challenging to pursue and enjoy success. Taking care of one’s physical and mental health provides the energy and resilience needed to excel in various aspects of life.
Integrity and Ethics: Upholding strong ethical values and integrity is essential. It builds trust, fosters healthy relationships, and contributes to a positive reputation, all of which are critical for long-term success.
Gratitude: Practicing gratitude helps maintain a positive mindset. It allows us to appreciate what we have, fosters contentment and promotes a sense of well-being that can fuel our pursuit of success.
Clear Goals: Setting clear, well-defined goals provides direction and purpose. Goals act as a roadmap, helping us stay focused and motivated as we work toward our aspirations.
Financial Literacy: Understanding financial principles and managing finances wisely is crucial. Financial literacy enables us to make informed decisions, achieve financial stability, and plan for the future.
Passion and Purpose: Having a deep passion for what we do, and aligning our actions with a sense of purpose, can be a powerful driver of success. It fuels motivation, creativity, and resilience in the face of challenges.
Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence, which involves understanding and managing our own emotions and empathizing with others, is vital for building effective relationships, leadership, and personal growth.
Time Management: Effective time management allows us to maximize productivity and make the most of our resources. It ensures that we allocate time to our priorities and avoid distractions.
What advice would you give to our readers?
As a coach, I would like to advice in three areas. Leadership, time management, and being an author. My advice to readers is to embrace a holistic approach to personal and professional growth.
In leadership, prioritize self-awareness and empathy, as these qualities form the bedrock of effective leadership. Invest in understanding your team’s strengths and motivations, and lead by example.
In the realm of time management, develop the habit of setting clear goals and priorities, and use tools and strategies to maximize productivity while maintaining a healthy work-life balance.
Finally, for aspiring coaches, I encourage consistent writing and learning from others in the field. Embrace rejection as a stepping stone to success, and remember that your unique voice and perspective can make a meaningful impact on clients.
Above all, in all these endeavours, remain open to growth, stay resilient in the face of challenges, and never underestimate the power of continuous learning and adaptability. Success in this field is not a destination but a rewarding journey of self-discovery and contribution to others.
Last but not least, what about your journey makes it satisfying/exciting?
My journey as a coach and trainer has been incredibly satisfying and exciting for several reasons. Firstly, witnessing the transformation and growth of individuals I’ve had the privilege to coach is genuinely rewarding. For instance, I once worked with a team struggling with communication issues, and through tailored coaching sessions, I saw them evolve into a highly collaborative and efficient unit. Knowing I played a part in their progress is immensely fulfilling.
Secondly, the constant learning and adaptability required in coaching keep the journey exciting. The coaching field is dynamic, and every client presents a unique challenge. This means I’m continually expanding my knowledge and refining my coaching techniques. For example, a recent client introduced me to a new industry, prompting me to delve deep into it, adapt my approach, and ultimately help them achieve their goals.
Moreover, the sense of purpose in my work is a driving force. Knowing that my coaching can have a positive impact on both professional and personal lives keeps me passionate.
An example that stands out is when a reader told me how my guidance not only improved their leadership skills but also positively influenced their personal relationships, demonstrating the broader impact of coaching/authoring.”
Lastly, building meaningful connections with clients is another highlight. The trust and rapport that develop during coaching relationships are incredibly enriching. Recently, a client turned into a mentor, and we continue to support each other in our respective journeys, underscoring the lasting connections that coaching can foster.
In sum, the satisfaction and excitement in my journey as a coach and trainer stem from the tangible impact on clients, the continuous learning and adaptability it demands, the sense of purpose, and the meaningful relationships that evolve along the way. These aspects make every day in this profession both fulfilling and exhilarating.
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